Wayne, You know what has to be done...

JT- "Hmm, this is pretty awkward..."


Chelsea and Manchester City go against each other on Saturday afternoon (early Sunday morning for me) And one wonders what will Bridge do when they go for the customary handshake. If you have been living underneath a rock for a month then I'll briefly tell you what happened. John Terry had an affair with Wayne Bridge's babymama. Now Wayne Bridge is obviously upset about the deal.

What should he do? People say that he should take the high road and shake his hand even if it doesn't mean anything.

Me? I only think of causing trouble so what I think he should do is not shake his hand. Spit on him even when they are in the tunnel and just go for his legs and risk a possible season-ending suspension. Hey, he doesn't plan on playing for England anytime soon according to reports. So why not take the Roy Keane route and try to end a players career. But that's just my thinking, I wouldn't feel sorry for JT at all.

I think Bridge should set-up a bounty on JT's head. It would be obvious if he would recklessly tackle Terry in the game but if you get a guy like Craig Bellamy to do it then, well obviously they would expect that you set it up, but you couldn't prove it unless you got it in writing or on tape. That would be the more reasonable response in my mind.

Then again, I don't like seeing anyone's career being over due to a serious injury but whatever happens to JT in just under two hours, he'll probably deserve it...

Moral Standards of a Man

That is a laughable statement. As if men have any morals left. We've seen Tiger Woods go through his nonsense now John Terry is going through the same thing but much worse. He bedded an mate's ex-girlfriend which is a no-no in man law especially when his mate had a kid with the girl. Everybody has talked about Tiger Woods so I'm going to say my two cents about the man in question now.

I thought about this topic of moral standards when I was reading up on the dailymail and them talking about other options for England captain if indeed Terry is sacked or resigned his captainacy. Each of the candidates have had problems with the law or cheating on their spouses or having orgies with prostitutes. We want to hold these people. Our "role models" in higher standards than they should be. However we forget who these people are. They are footballers. They've ate, slept, and shit football since the day they were born. The only families that some of these footballers know is their footballing academies. Don't get me wrong, they love their mothers and fathers but it is their manager telling them what to do once they turn 10, 11, or 12. I'm pretty sure that they do not go into life training when they are in these academies. For that matter, I don't think school would be a necessity to those trying to live the dream.

Where am I trying to get out?

We are talking about those kids who hardly have a family life anymore. They have not been taught right or wrong when it comes to relationship with each other or their woman friends. What do you expect will happen when they turn 20 years old and they are a Premier League footballers with millions and millions, AND glorious women flocking to their side any chance they get. We shake our heads to the John Terry's and the Ashley Cole's of the world that cheat on their WaGs (Wives and Girlfriends) but it is hard to say whether they do not know if it is truly right or wrong to do this. Until it gets to the media and they embarrass their women into tears, then they realize that they are wrong and "they'll never do it again". Until the next time they do it again.

I don't feel sorry for John Terry. It was his decision to get married to his childhood sweetheart. It is also his decision to go on drunken binders and find other women while he's engaged to his wife-to-be. It is also his fault for "cheering" up Vannessea Perconnel (Wayne Bridge's ex-girlfriend). What does he expect? A "Chelsea girl" who has slept with numerous Chelsea players other than Terry and Bridge. Hey he is one of those that just doesn't know when to say no or does he care about the ones he hurt. He wanted to hide this relationship to save his sponsorship deals, he never made one mention to hurting his family in any way. I mean how low is that.

Alright back to the task at hand. I truly don't know why any of these footballers (anyone for that matter) get married at an early age. Like I said before, they don't have any idea how to raise a family or how to treat their wives and children. They might love their children (John Terry was a dad of the year in England one time, wow England must have sad bad dads) but they don't understand the bad behavior they conduct themselves with will have a bad effect on them. Like what is being said by everybody, "John Terry is a football man." This is true, he knows nothing else and it will be a fool to say that you are shocked by his actions.

What about Women and Moral Standards? Haven't we forgot Vannessa was best mates with John Terry's wife? And she has done everything in her power to sleep with almost every Chelsea player she could. (Shoot I should have played for Chelsea). These women don't hold up their end of the bargain either. They are the ones who throw themselves at men to make a quick buck or they change their entire appearance just to keep their football husbands or boyfriends. Can't really fault them, I mean if they can sell a story for $250,000+ then all the power to them. But don't think you'll earn an ounce of respect from others due to you failing in keeping up with your moral standards.

We want our to hold our footballers, athletes, actors, actress, etc to a higher standard. And then you have people like Catholic Priest fondling little boys. Or pastors and deacons laundering money for their own good. These are the people who we look to to tell us of a better life after this one. And yet a minority of them take your money and don't even blink twice about it. What I'm trying to say (in case it got lost within the babble I spilled) is that stop expecting people to be perfect. None of us are. Even those who have an image of perfection, they aren't. And I'm not going to be surprised when I see a superstar: cheats on his (or her) wife/husband, or take PEDs, or goes to a brothel. Because they are only human and like Adam and Eve did a LONG time ago, sometimes we succumb to our urges no matter what the consequences are...

Go D.J. that's my D.J.

I'm sure Steven Gerrard was not saying this in a bar early Monday Morning. In fact him and his friends were beating the shit out of him because the DJ did not play his favorite song. Now the debate starts should he keep his England place for this. We all know that his play warrants him being in the squad but as for a role-model standpoint, do you want little kids to look up to him? And I'm sure that is the question the English FA and Fabio Capello are asking themselves. I'm sure Stevie G isn't a bad guy but when things like this happen you have to wonder how kids will look up to him and they might follow his example.

Now dre, what about John Terry, he has been in trouble before and now he is England's captain

True and honestly that is a very good reason why Stevie G should keep his spot. However even though John Terry is the captain of England, how many people actually know or care about John Terry. JT is an overachiever in my opinion who probably exceed anyone's expectations. And if you were to say who is the better center back b/t him and Rio, I think people who know about the game would say Rio. However Stevie G has a bigger aurora around him then JT and this could affect the team in negative ways too. People would have to answer questions about it and people would debate whether he should actually be in the squad for the time being

I don't think anything will happen to him. I don't think he'll lose his spot completely. I'm sure Capello will make an example out of him and leave him off the starting lineup for the friendly against Spain in February but I don't think he'll be in exile and honestly who in England is going to care what he does. I mean me and a Stevie G supporter were joking about the whole thing and I'm sure others will be too so I'm guessing what will happen is that he'll get a slap on the wrist, maybe a 30 day suspended jail sentence and then we'll all forget the whole thing within the next year.

Manchester United-Chelsea this saturday

The key matchup for this coming up Saturday. And when I first started watching European soccer I had much respect and love for Sir Alex Ferguson and now that respect has turn into loathe and possible hate of the Man Utd boss. He claims that if John Terry was a Manchester United player he would not have his red card overturned and that he got it overturn because he was a Chelsea player. He continues about the director of refereeing being bias to Chelsea and all that nonsense. Now I've seen the game and I thought that the red card was wrong. There was two guys behind him so he wasn't fouling Jo's clear path to goal. And they talk about foul serious play, It isn't like he football tackled him and spat on his face or anything. Alex is just upset that he can't get his guy Vidic on the field because they are smart enough not to rescind his double yellow because he fully deserved it (and probably should have gotten a straight red after fouling Dirk Kuyt before he was steaming towards net.)

I have another beef with Alex. He continues to run players out who doesn't care for or disagree with his beliefs. Most notably, David Beckham, Ruud Van Nistlerooy, and Roy Keane. He ran those players away and even kicked a boot at one of his players (Beckham). He just seems like a guy with a lil man complex... Probably wasn't the greatest player in the world or anything so he wants all the control and he wants all his players to be his robots. I just fear that Christiano Ronaldo will fall into the same trap and will be hung out to dry. Everytime I hear him talk I just want to strangle him.

So let me just get to the point. Who is going to win the game. It is in Stamford Bridge, Christiano Ronaldo is suppose to be back by then so that should make things interesting, but I feel like he will play a bit part and I think he might be working on a sabotage plan sorta like Manny Ramirez (i'll write about that later). I just don't see the bite in the United side. There's no Vidic which is a big lost for the side. I don't think the center midfield duo that United will bring out will come close to out-manning a midfield team of lampard, deco, obi mikel, the list goes on. I don't think Manchester has much of a match in this game. Rio is my "cultural" aggin but he isn't a match for Anelka, Malouda or maybe even Drogba who will probably make a 20 minute appearance like he did last week against Man City. It will be a 2-0 victory for Chelsea with Frank Lampard and Florent Malouda (yes that guy who was trash in euro 2008) scoring the two goals. I can't wait to see what excuse Sir Alex has for this week. Freakin weasel.